I like, I wish, What if...?

A simple guide to gathering views in SEND services

What is this method?

"I Like, I Wish, What If?" is a friendly, structured way to gather feedback and ideas. It breaks down thoughts into three simple categories that help people express their experiences and hopes for the future.
  • I Like: What's working well right now

  • I Wish: What could be better

  • What If: Creative ideas for the future

Why use this method?

✓ Simple to understand ✓ Works for different communication styles ✓ Can be adapted for different ages and needs ✓ Balances positive feedback with suggestions ✓ Encourages creative thinking ✓ Can be done individually or in groups

When to use it

This method works well for:
  • Service evaluations

  • School transport reviews

  • Short breaks service design

  • Education Health and Care Plan processes

  • Transition planning

  • Healthcare pathway reviews

  • Leisure activity planning

  • Support group development

  • Parent carer forum consultations

  • Local Offer website improvements

Running a session

What you'll need

Session structure

1. Setting up (15 minutes)

  • Create comfortable, accessible space

  • Display clear visual labels

  • Set up quiet area

  • Prepare communication supports

  • Arrange materials within reach

2. Introduction (10 minutes)

  • Explain each category using examples

  • Show how to share ideas

  • Set ground rules together

  • Explain how feedback will be used

  • Answer questions

3. Gathering views (30-45 minutes)

For each category:
  • Allow thinking time

  • Offer writing/drawing/typing options

  • Support with scribing if needed

  • Use prompt questions

  • Take regular breaks

4. Sharing ideas (20 minutes)

  • Optional sharing of thoughts

  • Group similar ideas

  • Celebrate contributions

  • Plan next steps

  • Explain what happens next

Making it accessible

For young people

  • Use symbols or pictures

  • Offer drawing options

  • Include movement breaks

  • Use special interests

  • Keep sessions short

  • Provide choices for sharing

For parent carers

  • Offer flexible timing

  • Provide childcare if possible

  • Give pre-session information

  • Allow online contributions

  • Offer 1:1 options

  • Follow up opportunities

Example questions for different topics

Transport review

I like:

  • "Which parts of your journey work well?"

  • "Who helps make your journey better?"

  • "What makes you feel safe?"

I wish:

  • "What would make your journey easier?"

  • "What would help at pick-up times?"

  • "What would make you more comfortable?"

What if:

  • "What if you could design the perfect transport?"

  • "What if you could change one thing?"

  • "What if you could help other children feel better about transport?"

Short breaks service

I like:

  • "What activities do you enjoy most?"

  • "Who makes your breaks fun?"

  • "What's the best part of your break?"

I wish:

  • "What other activities would you like?"

  • "What would make breaks better?"

  • "What would help your family more?"

What if:

  • "What if you could create a new activity?"

  • "What if you could go anywhere?"

  • "What if you could help plan activities?"

Education support

I like:

  • "What helps you learn best?"

  • "Who supports you well?"

  • "What makes a good day at school?"

I wish:

  • "What would help you learn better?"

  • "What would make school easier?"

  • "What support would help more?"

What if:

  • "What if you could design your perfect classroom?"

  • "What if you could teach others about your needs?"

  • "What if you could change anything about school?"

Recording and using feedback

During the session

  • Take photos of boards (with permission)

  • Note key themes

  • Record quotes (anonymously)

  • Capture nonverbal feedback

  • Note urgent issues

After the session

  • Create accessible summary

  • Share findings appropriately

  • Show how views influence changes

  • Plan follow-up sessions

  • Celebrate impacts

Success tips

  • Always offer multiple ways to contribute

  • Value all forms of communication

  • Allow plenty of time

  • Keep it positive and solution-focused

  • Show how feedback makes a difference

  • Make it fun and engaging

  • Be flexible and responsive

  • Follow up and keep participants informed

Remember: Every voice matters in making services better for everyone.